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superstar - founder
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Here's a fun place to ask any question you might be thinking to yourself but have never thought to ask before. Someone else might even have an answer to it. This can be anything on any subject matter. You can learn a lot by just asking questions.

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KimmieKoKo
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OK - first question on this section - yay - do I win a prize? LOL :-)

WHY do men cheat? They can have the most beautiful, sexy, intelligent, loving and caring woman, yet they still have to go and cheat. Often times, seems more often than not, the woman they cheat with is not as attractive, intelligent, or accomplished as the woman they cheated on.

Why is this?

Could it be that they don't think they deserve a beautiful and intelligent woman - are they intimidated by beauty and intelligence in the same package - are they looking for someone less attractive and less intelligent than them to feed their ego?

Do men want someone who is less attractive and less intelligent and less accomplished than them - so that they will feel more "powerful" and "manly"?

Awaiting answers.

superstar - founder
395 posts

Yes! You get TWO gold stars today!!!

From my own experiences from my past and from what I've read about this subject is that when someone cheats, whether man or woman, it has nothing to do with the other person. No matter how great this person is that they're with is irrelevant. There is usually always some kind of unresolved emotion underneath it all that they're trying to fulfill, some do it with food, some with alcohol, some with sex. Sometimes its something within the relationship that has not been gotten out in the open and dealt with between the two and so they try to fulfill this part of them elsewhere.
The one who cheats usually has a lot of issues not being addressed within themselves and have a hard time facing reality and whats inside them. They live in dishonesty with themselves and with others.

Thats just my observations on the subject.

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