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Sorry about going AWOL on you girls!  Things here are crazy, to say the least.  
How are you all doing?  I have thought of you frequently, but seems I am having a hard time getting here to post.
Ana, I am thinking of you, and hopefully things will start to unravel for you.  I know it seems like time stands still when you are making huge life decisions, and it is also utterly stressful, so you are in my prayers.  Hopefully, each day will get better, and in the meantime, I hope you have the courage to make the decisions you need to, and the sanity to make those decisions.
How are you Kimmie?  I have also had you in my prayers that things get easier for you, and hope that life's issues will start to weigh less on your thoughts.  
I am still having a terrible time with my back.  I had another MRI yesterday, and of course, I haven't heard from it yet, but I hope this is nothing that will require any type of surgery.  
My little girl is doing great with her legs...she is a true trooper!  This entire medical issue with her tendons has been far more difficult for my husband and I than for her.  She, like most children, just sails right through anything with flying colors.  I am so proud of her, and for the huge progress she has made.
My sister's divorce was FINALLY final yesterday.  She is not feeling well at all, and this entire divorce, which has lingered on for almost THREE YEARS now, has really taken a toll on her mentally and physically.  Keep praying for her.  Her next scans are in two weeks, and I just pray that she can go some time without chemo or radiation.
I have SO much to catch you girls up on, but I am worn to a frazzle right now.  I promise to be back tomorrow, and I haven't forgotten you!
Sending a hug your way,
Tina
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What did they say about your back yesterday? What will they do for it? Hopefully you can get away from having to have surgery! My older sister had a bicycle accident where a car hit her back when she was just 16 or 17 and now she's 52 and to this day she still suffers with problems in her spine/neck and back. She cannot stand or sit for too long without experiencing pain. I think she goes to the chiropractor.

Kids usually handle stuff like this better than adults for some reason, I guess they don't have all those worries we have. Glad she's doing good.

You mean you're sister is going through a divorce on top of having cancer? Gosh, how difficult can you get! Thats too much suffering!! Divorce is hard enough on its own let alone having a terminal illness at the same time. I feel so bad for her. How is her ex acting with all this stuff going on with her? Does he come around any or is this a nasty divorce type thing? Does she have kids?

Please take some time for yourself with all this stuff going on.

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KimmieKoKo
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I go back on Monday for some resolve on what to do with my back issues.  I keep thinking things will just "pop" back into place like it popped out, but no such luck yet.
Yes, my poor sister has been involved in an almost three-year long divorce from her husband of ten years, who started cheating on her and just announced one day out of the blue that he didn't love her anymore.  Obviously, he didn't own up to the affair, but we found out for sure that he was running around, and my sister felt no other solution than to serve him with the papers.  He has been dragging the divorce out all this time because he knows that she is terminal, and he has openly stated that he had NOTHING to lose and EVERYTHING to gain by keeping the divorce from being official.  As long as they were lawfully married, he would get everything upon her death.  FINALLY, the papers were signed this week, and it's hard on my sister.  I think the finality of it all hit her hard, as he was coming home regularly during the week to do laundry and get clothes, and usually to stir up a fuss about something trivial.  She is better off without him, but she did and still does care for him, even after all he has done.  
As far as her sickness goes, he has had NO compassion.  With all of her assets being tied up with the divorce, she has had no additional means of income, other than disability, and she has been unable to sell anything due to court orders.  She's been unable to work now for well over 18 months.
My sister doesn't have children.  She wanted a child so badly, and they were about to start trying when all of this with her marriage unraveled.  
Going to run now, but I will be back to check in with you all tomorrow.

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I wish it could just "pop" back in place for ya and of course without the pain!

Gosh, what a very sad situation for her. I really feel bad for her, too much to go through with having a serious illness. That is so much stress on its own.
Does she live in her own house?
What is her current status with the cancer? I guess she's probably on morphine for the pain.
I don't know how this guy can live with himself behaving this way! He must not have much of a conscious!

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KimmieKoKo
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Wow Tina, your sister has way more burdens than anyone ought to have to bear. So sad. I continue to pray for her, and for you.

Hope your back gets better soon - it is hard to do everytbing you need to when in pain.

Prayers for you and your family - your little girl is such a trooper - hope you all receive great blesings very soon - you have had to endure so much.

XO
Ana

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